Sunday, June 12, 2005

HUGGIES (calling on Ms. Lim to comment! )

Bear with me. I am just reflective by nature and so most of my posts here will be about my thoughts on so many things. Just always observant of my personal actions, thoughts and emotions too. So anyway, for the past month, I've always wanted to give hugs to people that matter to me. But somehow, I am always held back (except for PYROS people )...I guess I just did not grow up that way...or even with my other friends...ICA friends in general...like my HS barkada matter to me but somehow we're not used to expressing through actions...It may be a general trait...how we're cold, less touchy and show our love in other ways like giving of gifts? Letters at times :) That is why we are usually misunderstood and thought of as stone hearted beings. haha! We were trained not to show much of our emotions as public image is very important....Sa college lagn ako natuto mag beso! hehe.I must thank Ms. Miel Penalosa for being the really warm person that she is and always giving us her tight hugs that makes all your worries lighter...so, thanks mi for teaching me how to be warm! and I guess I need more practice! haha! Will have to force it until it becomes more natural maybe... :)

1 Comments:

At 7:36 AM, Blogger Ailee Through the Looking Glass said...

Well, if you insist... hehe. Yes, I'm hug-phobic, although I'm not as terrified of hugging as I was in high school or college. I've never been physical in expressing my affection. Some say it's because I'm too cerebral, others claim it's because I was never hugged as a kid (both are true). But over the years I've come to be more open with my emotions, and I barely flinch anymore when hugged, though I still rarely initiate the hugging. I'd rather write a looong letter. Hehe.

 

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